31 March 2021

Alex's 7th Birthday - Part 1!

Alexander Michael turned 7 on March 16. He is a big presence in our house which is why it has taken so long to put these posts together. But here we go, part 1: with the vaccinations beginning and all the COVID protocols in place, we were actually able to have a little birthday party for him! If you'll recall last year, he was one of the first birthdays after lockdown went into effect. But this year we were able to rent out Chase Arena and invited his Mite D hockey team and a couple other friends. The ice was ours for a whole hour. Even the dads played! We gave out goodie bags and had cupcakes in the parking lot afterwards and it was perfect. Alex is in the yellow jersey...











What did Alex do for the rest of his day? Played football with the neighborhood crew:


Had McDonald's for dinner (his choice, sigh)


Opened some presents



Played some hockey in his new gear


And had some cake.


All our love to you Alex! 7 looks good on you and can't wait to share all your stats and deets in the next post! xoxoxo

07 March 2021

My name is Kristen and this is my vaccination story

So here's how the week started. Last Sunday, February 28, Ashton played in an awesome hockey game against Dedham. It was literally 1-0, 1-1, 2-1, 2-2, 3-2, 3-3, and so on. They ended up winning by one goal and it was epic. Ashton scored a great goal, Grandma was there (vaccinated herself and visiting! Yay!!), GG watched online, and it was just one of those great ones. 


Monday morning they went off to school for the first time in 16 days. After February vacation and then a remote week, boy was everyone ready.

The joy was shortlived. Tuesday morning at 10 am we get the email: a player on the Dedham team had tested positive. Because Ashton's team had played them, according to the strict rules that govern hockey, they had to be quarantined and tested. So we pulled Ashton out of school and he spent the rest of the week bored out of his mind and flopping around the living room. All his hockey practices had been cancelled, he couldn't play football with kids in the neighborhood, and he was unable to attend the first indoor lacrosse clinic. Luckily he tested negative on Friday, as did the rest of his team. But like, UGH. And this upcoming week is remote so by the time he goes back to school in person on March 15, he will have gone 1 full day in 4 weeks. ONE. 

In the middle of all this, one of the neighboring towns announced their plan to bring all kids back to school, in grades K-5, full time, by April 5. Natick is no doubt going to feel tremendous pressure to get all the kids in our district back as well, and in fact there is a huge meeting tomorrow night about it. As of last Friday, the Commissioner was likely to gain a state Board of Education vote mandating it. 

In the meantime, two additional important things are going on. First, they opened vaccination eligibility to all teachers and staff in K-12. Second, Natick launched pooled testing for the district last week. What this is is basically blanket COVID testing for any child whose parents have opted in. Kids are tested in groups of 10, and if a pool comes back positive, then those 10 kids will be individually tested to find out where the positive is. It's faster and cheaper to do it this way and quite effective. There is state funding for the next 6 weeks to do this, but they send minimal staff and they put out a desperate call for volunteers to help keep the program running as long as necessary. I asked my director if she would mind me helping, since it is during work hours, and she said as long as it didn't conflict with anything, I could. I signed up, and feel so good about it. I'll be going into three different elementary schools (starting tomorrow/Monday 3/8) to coordinate nasal swabbing and the general administration/bar coding/etc that goes with all the samples. 

This is from the latest newsletter (3 days ago) from Natick Public Schools about it:


Pooled testing is designed to catch any asymptomatic or pre-symptomatic cases. In that vein, I was talking to my friend about it and she was like Oh my gosh, go get the vaccine. I was like, But I'm not a teacher. She said, you are a volunteer ("staff") and you're going in to test students. Go get it.

I pondered. I didn't want to cut anyone but then realized I could actually justify it. (We had previously joked that I was technically a teacher because of CCD, but classes are virtual right now LOL so of course that didn't feel right.)

So part 2 was getting an appointment. The first few times I tried, nothing. CVS is the only place doing this group until 3/11. They release their appointments very early in the morning and if you don't get in, you are put in a virtual waiting room for hours, it times out, etc. There is widespread frustration about it so I didn't have high hopes. ALL the threads on my local Facebook group are about the impossibility of getting through. 

I tried at several random intervals over a day or two, and nothing. Thursday morning I was up at 4:30 am to go to the bathroom. Not having high hopes but because it was right there, I picked up my phone and hit "Refresh" on the CVS appointments page, expecting to get the same message which was that all appointments (this is state wide, by the way) were booked and to try again later. 

Instead, they said, "Welcome to CVS! Enter your zip code for the closest available appointment."

I think I actually gasped. I punched in 01760 and it said "Why, you can go right across the street to our Wellesley store! How is Saturday? What time would you like?"

I hastily entered all my information and:



I couldn't believe it. I woke Jason up. I was elated and actually had trouble going back to sleep. I got an appointment! And for the Johnson & Johnson vaccine which is just one dose!

I think I double checked the clock a million times yesterday. I didn't want to miss it. Something about the appointment felt so fragile to me, so lucky. Honestly I have been operating under the idea that I would be the last person to get a vaccine and didn't think I would feel so differently about it, but I do. Clearly! This blog post is maybe (er, definitely) longer than it needs to be but it deserves it. The fact that there even is a vaccine for a virus that is ravaging the world and I have joined the small group that is vaccinated for it...I will never forget it. 

Today I've had some small physical symptoms (mainly tiredness and my body having some trouble regulating temperature), but I will happily take it. The vaccine is a privilege that, frankly, changes everything. I was just talking to Jason about it, how different it feels and how I can't explain it, and he said "Well, yeah, because now it's over for you." 

He's 100% right. It's over for me. And thank god, pretty soon it will be for everyone.



13 February 2021

A COVID Christmas

Nothing like waiting until nearly Presidents Day to post about Christmas. I have a very well-established pattern at this point of being late to the blog. In trying to figure out why, I realize there are two main reasons: first, it is a huge chore to go through the pictures and pick out the right ones. I have well over 100 to sort through and those don't even include Jason's. Second, everything feels repetitive. I'm about to show you the same pictures as last year, the year before, etc: us getting our tree, the boys leaving cookies for Santa, and all the in-betweens. If you add the constant activity around here and the fact that we don't have an office, there also isn't much quiet time to sit and type. 

But, here we are, and the one main difference this year of course was COVID-19. We knew we would be celebrating just the 4 of us but Jason and I vowed to still make it as special as we could. Miraculously, Ashton still seems to believe in Santa so of course we played that up. Pete came as usual, we did the holiday crafts as usual, and the house looked very festive. We got a great tree and we way overbought on the Christmas presents. Like there was a WALL of gifts, it was actually ridiculous. 

So this was going to be in two parts - most of December and then December 24 and 25th, as those magical days deserve to be on their own. But then I decided, you know what? It's bloody February, let it go Elsa. Blurry photos of opening presents? Gone. Shots of Jason cooking all the things? Gone. There are 12 days of Christmas - can I post about it in 12 photos?! Pssssh. Buckle up ya'll.  

1) Getting our tree obvi. We take the same photo every year (hopefully 2020 will be the first and last one with masks!)


2) Our holiday card. 

I'll admit, I realized the irony after I mailed these out. No one is holding anyone close right now except for those in their immediate household. If you listen to your governor. But anyway, it was super sticky and humid out, we were late for the photo shoot, and we had never used this photographer. All signs pointed to disaster but, I love this photo :)

3 and 4) This is super funny. There's only so many places you can hide presents after your kids learn they can look for them. We actually stuck most of the boys' gifts in the downstairs shower, literally 2 feet from where they go to the bathroom like a thousand times a day. 



Muah haha. They never suspected.

5, 6, 7, 8 and 9) We do try and make things festive in December. This year, with no parties, no special events, etc. it was harder but we did a lot of crafts and made cookies like, uh, many times.






Yes Ashton has his shirt off a lot. Alex does too actually - supposedly they are "SO HOT". 

10) Christmas Eve magic


11) And of course Santa came (see the wall of presents?? I told you, it was beyond). 


See the picture on the table? This is the upclose. 

12a)

So what I did was, the night of December 23rd, I snuck in and took pictures of the boys sleeping, being careful not to show their pj's. THEN, on the 24th, I dropped them into a photo template and sent it to Walmart to get printed. 

12 (b). Santa's note said:


If you're saying to yourself the boys' minds must have been blown, then you would be right.

Here is the video of Christmas morning -> https://youtu.be/AVuQVVcS9jk

And honestly, of course I do have tons of pictures of breakfast, opening presents, stockings, the games we played, the boys riding their hoverboards around and around and around and around the living room, but really the most important thing is that the 4 of us were together, we zoomed our families, and we were healthy and safe. 

Last picture of 2020! Lucky 13 :)


I can't say 2021 has been much more palatable than 2020, but there is lots of time left...fingers and toes crossed! And phew, I'm relieved this post is finally done. Perhaps my new year's resolution will be to keep up!

30 November 2020

Thankful

Nothing like waiting until MLK Day to post about Thanksgiving. Heh. Truth be told, I was several paragraphs into my Christmas post and then realized I had completely missed it (and only because I was scrolling through my photos and saw the turkey). That's just how things are going.

Like Christmas (as you'll soon see), we spent Thanksgiving just the 4 of us due to COVID. We still made all the things and the boys got to have Shirley Temples in glasses with very long stems. Quite special. Quite.

Jason has long claimed to make the best apple pie there is. Even his mom is like "Oh yes, Jason's pie is phenomenal!" And yet somehow, in the dozen or so years since we've been together, I have yet to have this elusive pie. He finally made it this year - the secret ingredients were definitely the kids breathing all over the dough:


And the skilled child labor we employed for the apple peeling. I won't tell you how many times the apples "slipped" into the trash. "OOPS Mommy. Still good, right? Right?"


We turned on the Macy's Day Parade (well, this year's version - still festive!) and filled the day by cooking of course.









I did the turkey burn Peloton ride with more than 40,000 other people!


Bloody Mary's and shrimp and Phase 10:



Um, then whiskey sours...


And then dinner.




We all said what we were thankful for and in the end, talked about how we have so very much. Our plates and hearts were full and these two even tried the green beans.


This and (other Christmas miracles) up next!